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How To Stop Being Selfish And Thrive In life

What does it mean to become a selfish person?

Merriam Webster dictionary has the following description:
“Selfish = Concerned excessively or exclusively with oneself; Seeking or concentrating on one’s own advantage, pleasure or well-being without regard for others.”

I’m excited today because this is a very different spin on how people think the word selfish.

A lot of us out there being selfish and here’s what I mean.

We’re not taking actions on our dreams – doing the things that we need to do to be successful – because we’re so concerned about how we look, how dumb we may sound, how unintelligent we may think that we are.

Take for instant, public speaking. A lot of you want to be public speakers. You dream of being on stage adding value to other people. One of the biggest things that stops you is what are people going to think about me – “What if my clothes look stupid? What if I sound weird?”

So I want to tell you today.  Whatever you’re trying to pursue – whether it’s public speaking, being an entrepreneur, communicating better, all these thoughts that you have swirling in your mind, I want to tell you to stop being selfish!

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Why You Need To Own Your Journey To Success

In today’s episode, I just want to hop on and encourage somebody and let you know that everybody’s journey to success or accomplishing goals is not the same.

You read so many success stories about different people: what they’ve had to overcome, the path that they had to take, the adversity that drove them to the success that they’re experiencing now.

It’s not going to be the same as your journey and I really want you all to understand that.

We all have different experiences, different gifts, different skills, and different backgrounds.

My journey to success and continuing to achieve success is not going to be the same as yours. It’s just not the way that this works.

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3 Success Principles To Achieve Breakthrough In life

Ever wonder what success principles do you need to follow to be successful in life?

There are many people in our history that have produced incredible success in their lifetimes. What’s amazing, however, is how they achieved such success even when they were faced with disadvantages.

Some people were born with physical impairments and some were in very challenging environments. This didn’t stop them from achieving phenomenal success.

What was their secret ingredient? They developed a persistent character.

Having persistence is one of the most important traits you must have to obtain incredible levels of success. So, how do we develop this characteristic that our ancestors used to achieve greatness in their lives?

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Why You Need To Stop Blaming Others

Have you ever met someone that just blamed their lack of success on everyone or everything but themselves? Blaming others for your problems can cost you dearly.

Maybe you used to be that person. Perhaps, you still are that person. If you are, don’t fret because there is definitely hope for you.

I used to be the very thing I am writing to you about! Yes, I was negative, lacked confidence in my abilities, and I blamed everything else for the problems I was experiencing in my life. In reality, I, myself, was the only person responsible for the events and direction of my life.

Playing the “blame game” has devastating effects on your life. It is important that you understand that this mindset of blaming others leads to other damaging behaviors – behaviors that will almost guarantee failure in everything that you do. Let’s look closely at them below.

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The Most Important Question To Ask To Be Successful

What does it take to be successful in life?

Everyone wants to be successful in life. Most people think that success is a straight linear path that you follow from point A to point B. The truth is the path can be filled with lots of unexpected detours along the way.

So, I want to ask you one very important question for today.

The question is “What are you feeding yourself single day?”

Because the reality of it is we’re eating, we’re consuming information every single day — whether we’re watching or we’re looking with our eyes, whether we’re hearing with our ears, whether we’re speaking with our mouths or other people are talking to us — we are consuming information.

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